scikit-learn DBSCAN memory usage
UPDATED: In the end, the solution I opted to use for clustering my large dataset was one suggested by Anony-Mousse below. That is, using ELKI’s DBSCAN implimentation to do my clustering rather than scikit-learn’s. It can be run from the command line and with proper indexing, performs this task within a few hours. Use the GUI and small sample datasets to work out the options you want to use and then go to town. Worth looking into. Anywho, read on for a description of my original problem and some interesting discussion.