How can I see what processes are running?

I use Ubuntu Server 10.10 and I would like to see what processes are running. I know that PostgreSQL is running on my machine but I can not see it with the top or ps commands, so I assume that they aren’t showing all of the running processes. Is there another command which will show all running processes or is there any other parameters I can use with top or ps for this?

Is there a way to simulate a “Close” event on various windows using the terminal?

I answered on Ask Ubuntu Quit all instances of gnome-terminal via a command but as you all can read gnome-terminal didn’t seems to have a SIGcall I could use to simulate this “Close” event. So this lead me to ask, is there a way in GNOME/KDE/LXDE/{put your window/desktop manager/environment here} to simulate the “Click in close button” event? I have read different questions that could have any relation to this, but don’t answer this.