ASP.Net Worker Process Memory Profile Tools

We have a fairly high volume ASP.Net site written in c# using MS commerce server, running in a 32-bit environment. I see the worker process up to 980 megabytes quite often. I would like to profile this process and determine where any gains could be made in code to reduce the memory foot print of this site. My question what tools have worked well for you doing this sort of thing on ASP.Net web applications?

How can you set the selected item in an ASP.NET dropdown via the display text?

I have an ASP.NET dropdown that I’ve filled via databinding. I have the text that matches the display text for the listitem I want to be selected. I obviously can’t use SelectedText (getter only) and I don’t know the index, so I can’t use SelectedIndex. I currently am selecting the item by iterating through the entire list, as show below:

Get Performance Counter Instance Name (w3wp#XX) from ASP.NET worker process ID

I would like to display some memory statistics (working set, GCs etc.) on a web page using the .NET/Process performance counters. Unfortunately, if there are multiple application pools on that server, they are differentiated using an index (#1, #2 etc.) but I don’t know how to match a process ID (which I have) to that #xx index. Is there a programmatic way (from an ASP.NET web page)?