Orphan process’s parent id is not 1 when parent process executed from GNOME Terminal

I start a new process from GNOME Terminal and then this process fork a child.
But when I killed the parent process the orphaned process’s parent id became something other than 1 which represent init --user pid.
When I do this in virtual terminals, the parent pid is 1 which represent init process.
How can I execute new process from GNOME Terminal so that when it is died, the child process’s parent pid became 1 and not pid of init --user process?
Thanks a lot.

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